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When did you realize that you were an adult?

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What was the experience that you had in life that made you realize that you were an adult?

Mine was when my nephew that was born 4 days after my 20th birthday was dating a woman that had 2 young sons. My nephew told me when he was watching those boys, if a difficult situation arose then he would ask himself, โ€œWhat would Uncle Bob do when he was watching me and my older brother and this kind of situation happened?โ€

I was both flattered and a little scared that my actions were being used as a โ€œgood exampleโ€.
Wedding, maybe? Which is a bit scary when you consider that I was married at 27. Or maybe it was my nephew on my wife's side being born a month after the wedding. Hell, I suppose having my own kid (33) could even qualify. I think I took a long time to transition into true adulthood.xurYR8GQGviyxA4o

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After I turned eighteen, during the spring of my senior year of high school. I walked through the parking lot behind a couple of guys in my grade. They were discussing asking their parents for twenty bucks to go to the basketball game and get fast food that night.

I slid my hand into my pocket and fingered a hundred dollar bill I had earned from my full-time job the week before. I realized I wasn't dependent on my parents for money to pay for my things.

I'd say when I realized that I had fallen in love with my future husband! I was eighteen and he was twenty and in the police academy. It hit me that he was the guy that Iโ€™d spend the rest of my life with. Got married at nineteen and never regretted a second
When I got an apartment in my name only

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Coming out to my mom. <-- that's my adult answer.

Truthfully, I hope i never grow up!



"Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it." George Santayana

I think I am still waiting...any day now....maybe
I feel I'm still struggling. Part of me will always say never. Then the other part is very happy being an adult.
When I started getting really bad growing pains in my legs. I told my mother and she said: "I think you are experiencing growing pains." A few years later, on my birthday, I got my first application in the mail to get a credit card. People thought I was crazy for NOT applying for it.
This is rather odd I am sure. I was taking a shower in my apartment at the university. I may have been about twenty-five then and had served a tour in the Navy. But as I showered it occurred to me, 'your mother did not have to tell you to take a bath or shower. You did it on my own.' That was when I fully understood I was a full-grown adult.
I have remembered. I was 17 and had a very unhappy situation at home, the latest of which was "if you live under my roof you will do what you are told". Wow! I didn't have to live under that roof, I could find a way to share an apartment. Big light bulb moment.
Probably the first time I boarded an airplane in my flight attendant uniform and saw 180 people staring at me. I realized then that they were depending on me and I was younger than most of them. It got easier every flight
I will have to say thirteen years old ..I had to help my parents with their finance at the bank. Immigrates with limited english, I had to try translate the process of purchasing land and building our home. X amount of years later, I am still translating for my dad ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜ƒ
When you have a wife and kids, and people are counting on you.

When I had to defend a mother and a child from a ill behaving veteran. While others recorded, I rolled up on him, kicked his cane from under and watched him fall. 

When I was driving in my own car back to my house from work. I was 20

It became official when I had my daughter ๐Ÿ˜

I'm an adult?

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I'm an adult?

I second that. I love being a child in my heart and soul.

I'm done being an adult. Retirement means a return to childhood! ๐Ÿ˜Ž



"Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it." George Santayana